Thought I'd post an update. SUCCESS! I've made some great progress. I actually am now able to pause/unpause my robot from my iPhone

. I first isolated the pins on the display board that the pause button closes and then I rigged up an X10 implementation where I pass a command from my iPhone (using X10 Commander software) to my home PC, which then sends an RF X10 signal picked up by an X10 transceiver, it passes that signal to a low voltage X10 relay module which I then have connected to the robot. When the relay closes, it simulates pressing the Pause button on the robot

. BTW - I can also turn on and turn off the robot remotely as well.
My next step is to rig up a connection mechanism similar to the way the dome nuts connect to the charging plates so I can pause/unpause the robot when it is in the charging base. This method requires no extra battery on the lawnbott - just some wires that run from the charging station into the robot display board.
Oh - and the coolest thing about this is that I can do this from anywhere I have cell phone coverage. I am connecting to my home PC through the 3G network, not through my home network so wherever I am, I can pause.
I also have some wireless X10 cameras that I will set up - one of which will be pointed at the charging station so I can verify that I have paused the robot successfully.
Once I have this mod completed, my next step will be to follow the suggestions that jzawacki had mentioned below. I may try to isolate the serial commands that are transmitted to the robot when the remote control is used and then come up with my own RF module or some other remote communication method so that you could issue other remote commands to the robot when it is in the yard. This would allow you to issue a charge command to the robot if it was done with a particular zone, force it to go back to base and then come out and do the next zone. This way the robot does not waste time in a zone when it is done mowing.
I've also got another idea but still have to do a little research to see if it is possible

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